Every thing you share is valid and admirable. I think an unspoken factor (whether you realize it or not) of your authentic harmonic relationship, is the physical CHEMISTRY you two blend together. Other couples, who may have the same intention as you, may not ever be able to achieve such a union simply because they don't share a complementary chemistry. I don't think it's something that can be acquired. Hence Phil, why you've never experienced it before. Just my opinion and I rejoice in the fact the two of you have actualized the Ideal! xo
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this post. I agree that couples have different degrees of chemistry. However, I am a bit puzzled on what that has to do with this post and for several reasons. The first is that the emphasis of this post is not on couples. We talk from our experience, and yes we are a couple, but n this instance, it was the experience between Phil and I, a visiting friend and my son, all living with this degree of awareness and acceptance of the others that we shared. Further, what Phil was pointing out about his former relationships was the example of one partner who always wanted everything to be her way and where he,, as a result, did not feel that he was able to be himself. I think that we can learn to practice relating peacefully in all our relationships, and that one of the important factors for this to be possible is learning to accept people for who they are, and how the are. Again, thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and I wish you peace in your relationships as well.
Thank you Jeanine! So glad you were able to find this useful! It is our great hope to spread this message of how to have peaceful relationships and to find ways to spread this path one relationship at a time.
I am the guest that enjoyed the welcome and easy week+ with Phil and Maude..YES!! Clearly it is in the intention to be in full acceptance of each party involved as well and feel the joys of our connections that we create with eachother. We were able to move in and out of the days...and share our time and thoughts ...a syncopation and and joyful relaxation made a lovely week for all of us.
Every thing you share is valid and admirable. I think an unspoken factor (whether you realize it or not) of your authentic harmonic relationship, is the physical CHEMISTRY you two blend together. Other couples, who may have the same intention as you, may not ever be able to achieve such a union simply because they don't share a complementary chemistry. I don't think it's something that can be acquired. Hence Phil, why you've never experienced it before. Just my opinion and I rejoice in the fact the two of you have actualized the Ideal! xo
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this post. I agree that couples have different degrees of chemistry. However, I am a bit puzzled on what that has to do with this post and for several reasons. The first is that the emphasis of this post is not on couples. We talk from our experience, and yes we are a couple, but n this instance, it was the experience between Phil and I, a visiting friend and my son, all living with this degree of awareness and acceptance of the others that we shared. Further, what Phil was pointing out about his former relationships was the example of one partner who always wanted everything to be her way and where he,, as a result, did not feel that he was able to be himself. I think that we can learn to practice relating peacefully in all our relationships, and that one of the important factors for this to be possible is learning to accept people for who they are, and how the are. Again, thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and I wish you peace in your relationships as well.
This is a lovely post, Phil & Maude, on the workings of a successful relationship. Thanks for sharing it.
Thank you Jeanine! So glad you were able to find this useful! It is our great hope to spread this message of how to have peaceful relationships and to find ways to spread this path one relationship at a time.
I am the guest that enjoyed the welcome and easy week+ with Phil and Maude..YES!! Clearly it is in the intention to be in full acceptance of each party involved as well and feel the joys of our connections that we create with eachother. We were able to move in and out of the days...and share our time and thoughts ...a syncopation and and joyful relaxation made a lovely week for all of us.
You made this experience so easy, as acceptance is your natural way! May this wonderful way of living in peace spread one relationship at a time!